Following these simple guidelines will help create a comfortable and erotic environment for our time together.

Inform yourself thoroughly through this website before contacting Me. I appreciate you keeping questions to a minimum over the phone.

Keep your appointments. Rescheduling is acceptable only in the event of a personal emergency.

Your communication with Me must be exceptionally courteous. Address Me as Mistress (Katja).

Use phone and email to arrange appointments, not to discuss detailed fantasies. We will do that in person. For phone Domination sessions and BDSM conversation, use My separate Domination line.

Schedule a reasonable amount of time together. I allow time for pre-scene discussion and aftercare outside of your session time, but I strongly recommend a 90 minute - 2 hour minimum session length to allow for a satisfying level of play. I don't like to rush things, mind you, but you should be realistic about how much we can do during the amount of time you have requested.

Do not expect sexual contact or excessive physical contact.

Prepare yourself properly: be freshly showered, well groomed, sober, hydrated, and on time.

Follow My instructions, there are good reasons for all of them.

Communicate your submissive desires to Me, as well as your limits, when asked.

Gifts, flowers, cards, and gratuities may be presented as tokens of affection and appreciation, as well as thank you email after a session.

Offers of personal service, such as maid-service, professional services, or labor, may be made politely and without expectation after several sessions. Such opportunities are reserved for exceptional individuals, with a sincere need to serve, and are almost never in lieu of a donation.